Last Updated on March 26, 2025 by pm_author_91ksj
As soon as you get engaged, you start looking forward to the special moment of your life that awaits you. But a wedding doesn’t just happen on its own- you need to plan it effectively. And let’s be honest, if you aren’t a seasoned planner with lots of experience under your belt, doing so can cause a great deal of stress. After all, where should you even begin? Should you start shopping for your wedding dress right away, or do touring ventures come first? And when is the right time to have your entertainment booked?
It can be hard to figure out the answers to all these questions on your own, and the last thing you want is the planning process to leave you feeling overwhelmed. But don’t worry, we’ve got you covered. In this blog, we provide 7 tips to help you plan the wedding of your dreams and make this unique moment as memorable as possible. Read on!
Establish A Budget
The first thing to tackle when planning your wedding is your budget. Why? It’s simple: it will guide all the other decisions. So, sit together with your significant other and talk about your finances and how much money you can both afford to spend on the big day. Suppose you believe your parents may want to contribute; it’s essential to also discuss this with them in the planning stages to know exactly what they’re comfortable spending.
While establishing a budget may not be the most interesting thing to do, it’s essential because it will help you avoid financial wedding stress later on in the process. After deciding on a budget, make sure to stick to it – but also give yourself some room for unforeseen expenses or last-minute changes.
Choose A Wedding Style
Before booking anything, choose a few bridal inspiration resources, such as magazines, Instagram, Pinterest, and trustworthy bridal websites, and do your homework. This will help you understand what type of wedding style you prefer before you meet with vendors. Just remember not to overwhelm yourself with all the inspiration you can find.
Instead, spend some time looking at photos and ideas and writing down what you like and what you don’t. This will ultimately help you stick to the style that resonates with you the most.
Consider The Date
Obviously, this is one of the things that should be at the top of the mind when planning a wedding because it will impact many other aspects of the process. When choosing a date, consider the season in which you would prefer to get married, as well as the day of the week.
Other important considerations are how popular the dates you’re thinking of may be for other to-be-weds, as this can increase the prices for the wedding, as well as whether it would be difficult for your guests to attend the big event during that time.
Make A List Of Wedding Guests
Speaking of guests, it’s essential to sit down with your partner and decide who you want to invite.
We know there can be a lot of pressure to invite just everyone; however, who you’re surrounded by will influence how you feel on the big day, so you want to take some time to really consider this aspect and ensure that you put on the list mainly those people who mean the most to you.
Choose Your Dream Venue And Suppliers
Selecting a venue for the wedding is another major decision you’ll have to make, as it will determine the location, date, and maximum guest numbers. Before you begin the hunt for it, discuss with your significant other what you want from the wedding and what kind of venue can fit with the chosen theme and style. Review your wedding vision and priorities and compromise if needed.
Other factors to consider include whether you want to utilize your own caterers, if you prefer a venue with accommodation, as well as the evening guest number. Besides choosing the venue, you also want to put some thought into the suppliers you will need to hire, including photographers, cake makers, florists, music and DJs, hair and makeup, and so on. Take the time to find wedding suppliers you feel comfortable with and who can understand your vision and style for the big day, as this will allow you to bring your dream wedding to life.
Take The Time To Shop For Wedding Attire
Finding the perfect wedding dress is exciting but it can also become stressful if you don’t start early! Ideally, try completing the purchase nine months before the wedding, because this will ensure there’s enough time for any necessary alterations and fittings. Obviously, you will also need to shop for wedding-party ensembles, and you should give yourself seven to eight months in advance before the wedding date for this. This way, you will have enough time to coordinate the bridesmaids and groomsmen’s outfits and look for inspiration to help you narrow down your vision for how you’d want them to look during the big day. Remember that the bridesmaid and groomsmen’s attire shouldn’t compete with the bride’s dress, so if the gown is elaborate, choosing elegant dresses and suits for the wedding party is the right choice. However, suppose the wedding dress is understated, there’s flexibility to opt for bold colors and designs for the attendants.
As for your parents’ outfits, you’ll want them to adhere to the color palette of the wedding, because they are honorary members of the event. After considering the style and color of the mother of the bride’s dress, it’s important to ensure that the mother gets a say as well because you want her to feel as comfortable as possible. To choose the right dress, consider the wedding venue and the formality of the event. For instance, while formal settings require a more upscale ensemble, a laid-back celebration calls for a more casual wedding outfit.
Don’t Overlook The Little Details
While you should always start with the main things when planning your wedding, don’t forget about the little details because those personal touches matter significantly. Perhaps some cultural customs or family traditions mean a lot to you. If that’s the case, there’s no reason not to incorporate them into the wedding-day festivity—after all, this is your day!
Take the time to also outline the songs that you want to be played during the big day ( and songs you don’t want to hear), arrange for small gifts for those who played a role in wedding planning and your wedding party, and consider even giving them a shootout during the wedding toast, as this is an excellent way to show gratitude and make the event memorable for everyone.
Last Words
There you have it: a list of the most important things to keep in mind when planning for your special day. Hopefully, you’ll be able to relax and enjoy your time with loved ones because, in the end, you’re getting married, so you deserve to be present in the moment and celebrate love!
