Making Time For Yourself

February 16, 2017

Filed Under : Motherhood

Making Time for Yourself 2One thing that I have found to be essential during this season of life, and this season of the year, is finding little ways to make time for myself. Before we started growing our family, I use to talk and dream of picking up and heading out west to experience another part of the country and go  an adventure together. I’d talk about Colorado, Oregon, Seattle… maybe I was watching a little too much Grey’s Anatomy ;). But the more I’ve gotten to know myself, the more I realize maybe a long term stent away from family in a colder, cloudier place isn’t the best for me.Making Time for YourselfThis winter it has been oddly warm here in South Carolina, but typically I have to put a little extra energy into self care during the January and February months to keep those winter blues at bay. I have found that to be especially important since having a baby. This time last year was tough (another post for another day), but it helped to teach me what my mind and body need and that it is possible to care for others without fully neglecting yourself. Here are a few things that help to keep me sane and help to make me a better mother, wife, and friend….Making Time for Yourself 3

  1. Get a babysitter! Like right now. Find and book one immediately. I am so fortunate to have family close by who are always ready and waiting to babysit…well, most of the time anyway ;). Getting someone to watch and play with Piper while I do some dishes, laundry, run errands, or go for a run has made a world of difference. When there is clutter in my house, there is clutter in my mind, and I have found that the act of doing housework uninterrupted can actually be soothing for me. It’s also refreshing to get out of the house to take myself on a coffee date, go to the grocery store, or peruse target without having to manage a toddler tantrum because all she wants to do is stand up in the cart and doesn’t seem to understand why I won’t let her (fun times). I come home refreshed and with arms wide open ready to embrace the toddler running towards me at full speed ahead ;).
  2. Book a monthly spa service. I know what you’re thinking, “yeah, right.” But, I’m serious. For me, I get my eyebrows waxed monthly by an esthestician who works at a nearby salon. She makes  your eyebrow waxing a full spa experience. It’s amazing. You lie on a heated, padded, and raised massage table in a dimly lit room with essential oils and soothing music playing as she works her waxing magic. It only takes 10-15 minutes total, but they are 10-15 minutes of full bliss. She also goes the extra mile and if I have a spot on my face that needs attention she’ll treat it, and she’s always willing to answer my skin and makeup questions. Some other services that are equally soothing include getting your hair cut or colored (my hair dresser gives a head and neck massage while she washes your hair…. ahhhhhhmazing), a manicure, pedicure, eyelash extensions, or back massage. Worth.every.penny.
  3. Wake up before the kiddos. This is one I’m still working on. I am not a morning person in the least, but am trying so hard to be. When I wake up to a crying, hungry baby and immediately have to hit the ground running, my day ends up mimicking those very first moments…chaotic and crazy. When I can get up, drink a cup of coffee, and spend time reading before Piper is up, it makes the biggest difference in the world.
  4. Ladies night. I love a good ladies night. Whether it’s having friends over after Piper goes to bed, meeting up at another friend’s house, or going out for drinks, connecting with other women has been so refreshing and good for my soul.
  5. Bubble baths. This has become one of my favorite ways to end my day. I’ll grab a glass of wine (or la croix…i’m addicted!), pop on a playlist, and light a candle, and I could soak for hours. In my opinion, a bath fixes everything, which is why it’s no surprise I even loved laboring in the bath (see Piper’s birth story here).
  6. Get away overnight. The first time we left Piper with family overnight was right around her first birthday. We took the plunge and didn’t just scoot away to a hotel nearby, but instead went 9+ hours away to Florida! I was experiencing so much mom guilt and anxiety before we left, but once we settled into the groove of our vacation and my parents assured me for the hundredth time that Piper was safe and having fun with them, I was able to relax and reset. Diving straight into the deep end with getting away overnight has made other little getaways feel like a piece of cake. Once again, we have family close by and Piper loves going to their houses and even spending the night, so we welcome the help! I think it’s also really healthy for both her and us to be flexible and allow grandparents to keep her.
  7. Find a favorite coffee, favorite wine, favorite bubble bath, and favorite tv show. I found this advice from this refreshing read on Austin Mom’s Blog, here, and I couldn’t agree more (although I added in the tv show part). Just looking forward to a delicious cup of coffee when I wake up, or a glass of wine, bubble, bath, or tv show once Piper is down makes any day just a little easier to face.
  8. Use nap time to pamper yourself every once in a while. It’s so tempting to try and get an entire day’s to-do list done during nap time, but I highly recommend selfishly using nap time every once in a while. I love to make my own little mini spa at home and paint my nails, wear a face mask, wash my make up brushes, read a book, practice yoga, or take a nap myself….

For any of these to be possible, it is so important that your house feels like a home. I read a quote on a friend’s instagram, ” Home interprets heaven. Home is heaven for beginners.” And being a homebody, I couldn’t agree more. Having a home that I am constantly working on to make my own and keep clean and safe allows it to be a safe haven and a place where I can make make time for myself. Which is why I am so thankful to all the services Terminix offers to help make that possible.

I’d love to know, what are your favorite ways to make time for yourself? Do any of these resonate with you!?

This post is in partnership with Terminix Service Inc., but all content and opinions are my own.

Poncho Weather

January 23, 2017

Filed Under : Lifestyle - Style

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This South Carolina weather seriously cannot make up it’s mind. One day it’s below freezing and snowing, and the next day it is 75 degrees and sunny out! I’m not going to lie though, I kind of love it. I’m definitely a warm weather kind of girl, and when my husband makes fun of me for always using a heating pad on the couch, I reply “warmth is happiness.”

This look is from one of those ‘colder’ days here in the south. A poncho is perfect for winter weather here in Greenville. Its warm enough to wear outside without having to wear a heavy coat awkwardly over it. Sadly this one is sold out, but I’ve linked some similar ones below! Also, I am living in these boots lately! I’ll even pair them with a simple, relaxed sweater and instantly feel more put together!

I hope your week is off to a great start. Happy Monday, friends!

*Photos by Jessi Nichols Photography

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Our Wintry Front Porch

January 16, 2017

Filed Under : Interiors - Lifestyle

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I’m finally getting around to sharing our wintry front porch decor! I planned to share it a while ago, but sheesh – sometimes time just gets away from you! So even though my mind is thinking towards spring and warm weather, I still wanted to share some of our winter decor on the blog.

My sweet mother-in-law actually decorated our porch in time for Piper’s first birthday party, as a birthday gift to me (Piper’s birthday is just a day before mine!). She captured my style and vision perfectly. It is simple, with a lot of greenery and gold, just how I like it :). And can you believe she put together that amazing magnolia wreath from scratch!? Obsessed. Sadly, it is no longer with us, but it was beautiful all through the holiday season!

I love how our porch transitioned perfectly from fall, to Christmas, to a January winter. In November we had gold spray painted pumpkins, both big and small, and pinecones. For Christmas we added the garland and threw out the pumpkins (they were rotting – whoops), and then for January we’ve taken down the garland again and sadly said goodbye to our wreath.

I’ve never given much thought to the exterior decor of our house, because I am always working on the inside, but after this little project I might be hooked. Already thinking through plans for a spring front porch!

Cruising Through Winter

January 6, 2017

Filed Under : Lifestyle - Motherhood

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As much as I love the cold weather and a cozy fire, the winter months can take a toll on this mama. I’m a gal who needs her daily dose of sunshine to make it through the day. The colder it gets, the more I want to stay inside and hide away, but I know I will be a better wife and mom if I get outside and get a little exercise and fresh air. Something that I’ve found quite helpful is going out for family walks. I’m thankful to have a stroller that is cozy for Piper, and easy to tote around, because then I don’t have any excuses not to get our family up and moving!

Recently, we strapped Piper into her Bugaboo stroller and did a little window shopping before grabbing dinner at Sidewall downtown. We love this stroller so much because it is cozy and convenient for not only Piper, but for me as well. When it’s really cold, we’ll bring the sun shade all the way down to block the wind and hopefully hold in a little heat for our Piper girl. I’m also loving my Bugaboo organizer because it easily straps to the stroller and fits a variety of necessities. There’s been many times when I go out with Piper and realize I forgot to pack diapers, and of course those are the outings when she’ll make a big mess. This little organizer makes life a bit simpler for me, which I’ll take any day.

It’s these simple, day to day activities that I know I will look back at one day and cherish the most. I tell you what, having a little one makes the ordinary extraordinary, whether you’re lounging around the house, or taking a family walk together. I wouldn’t trade a second of it for anything else in the world.

Thank you so much to Bugaboo for partnering on this post!

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